The better Half & Half, a signature wedding cocktail all your guests will love! (great for any party too!)
A version of a delicious signature wedding cocktail that will please even the pickiest of drinkers: A better half and half. It’s combination of Sweet Tea Vodka and fresh lemonade. It’s a nice change of pace, not overly strong, but very satisfying.
This weeks Friday Cocktail is from my niece Halley’s wedding in St. Pete’s Beach, Florida last November. It was their signature wedding cocktail and they called it the better half and half! Clever and delicious, it was the perfect drink to have to celebrate!
It was nice and cold for a hot day and it was easy to drink many of them while toasting to their marriage! (They are a really LOVED couple, the toasting of them was nonstop, so trust me when I say it was many of them.)
Usually I’m a purist. I like my iced tea plain, no sugar. I prefer martinis with gin straight up with no fruit infused mixer. Although I will occasionally have a chocolate martini…I mean chocolate vodka is pretty amazing in the right situations. And while I’m trying many new versions of bourbon cocktails for the Friday Cocktail series nothing beats a good scotch all by its lonesome.
But sometimes you need to break away from tradition and try new things. Enter the wedding signature cocktail: A better half and half. It’s kind of like an Arnold Palmer Iced tea except it’s the adult version.
Yes, you read that right, an Arnold palmer with alcohol. By substituting sweet tea Vodka for the iced tea then pairing it with lemonade it makes for one heck of and adult cocktail version.
It has just the right amount of tartness from the lemons while the sweet tea vodka gives it the added sweetness that you need to have a really smooth drink. Translation: you won’t choke on the alcohol taste when you take your first sips!
I’ve added my own touch by infusing the lemonade with fresh rosemary. It’s been a little bit crazy around here so I bought storebought lemonade and the rosemary was my way of making it just a little bit fancier.
This wedding was in St. Pete’s beach Florida. If you have ever been in Florida you know what real humidity is like. This drink is very refreshing because of both the lemonade and serving it over ice. The bartender made big containers of it ahead of time and poured it over ice for us upon ordering.
The recipe I’m including is to make it with a big batch but I plan on making it often for just one or two people at of our upcoming at home cocktail hours. So I’ll include a single version recipe in the note section.
If you ever have a chance to visit St. Pete’s Beach I highly recommend it.
We stayed at the Postcard Inn, a perfect venue for a wedding while having great rooms at really fair rates. Its right on the beach and they were crazy accommodating for anything we needed.
There are some great restaurants there to have the local fish available. Rum Fish Grill had some of the best appetizers. They had an Poke Tuna and Firecracker Shrimp that really hit the spot.
Rum Fish also has probably the second best mai tai I’ve ever had… second best to the version I make at home you can find here.
I also highly suggest the St Petersburg Farmers Market on Saturdays in the heart of downtown. I could have spent many hours there looking at great produce, interesting art pieces and some very unique food choices.
The Thai Food booth was especially tasty and made fresh to order. Here are some pictures that don’t even begin to do justice to how wonderful it was.
The last thing I recommend is the Twistee Treat! It’s a homemade ice-cream shop that has some crazy combinations where everyone can find something that appeals to them. You can’t miss it driving down the street….. its a business shaped in the image of an ice cream cone! Try it out, I promise you won’t be disappointed!
Can you tell I had a great time? I really enjoyed the city and the memories I will have from here. (If you look below you’ll see we all had a pretty great time!! And doesn’t my niece look absolutely beautiful??)
But back to the signature wedding cocktail, the better half and half. I can’t think of a better drink to make for a cocktail party. You can make it in pitchers ahead of time which is a great way to go so you have more time to focus in your guests or getting food ready.
Cheers!

- 16 oz Sweet Tea Vodka I used Seagrams
- 32 ounces Lemonade
- fresh squeezed lemon juice from 1 large lemon
- 2 Sprigs of Fresh Rosemary plus additional for garnish
- Muddle 1-2 sprigs of rosemary in bottom of pitcher.
- Then add Vodka, lemonade, and lemon juice.
- Strain into glass over ice, then serve with a garnish of rosemary.
- This would also work well with a sugar rimmed glass!
One Serving:
2 parts Sweet Tea Vodka
3 parts Li]emonade
squeeze of 1/4 lemon
sprig or rosemary
(muddle rosemary in the shaker with liquids before pouring over ice!)
*** Wedding Photography Photo taken by Breanna Peterson Photography
Megan @ MegUnprocessed says
This sounds refreshing!!
Ashley - Baker by Nature says
This looks so refreshing!
Michele says
🙂
kristi says
a grown up Arnold Palmer!! so refreshing and good!
Michele says
I know right? Enjoy! ~m
Caitlin + Dani says
This is so a-doll-able! Agree that this would be a refreshing summer wedding drink. Love it!
Michele says
I must admit, they were perfect at Halley’s wedding!! ~m
Hannah says
I bet this cocktail would be a hit at any wedding! I bet this would be great with some fresh fruit added as well
Ana De- Jesus says
Aw sadly I cannot have a cocktail as I can’t have alcohol but I do like the idea of adding rosemary to Lemonade/ ice tea
Michele says
That is where I got the idea Ana~ Lemonade jazzed up with rosemary… I think you’ll enjoy it 😉
Amber Nelson says
Now this sounds like it would be awesome! I am going to bookmark this for my sister’s wedding.
Debra says
How fun is that ice cream shack? My kids would absolutely love to stop by something like that!
Cindy (Vegetarian Mamma) says
That cocktail says Hello Summer! I can’t wait to make that, it looks amazing!
Michele says
I completely agree…. thanks for stopping by! ~m
Blythe A. says
Pefect cocktail for the hot Florida sun. And I love the recommendation for Tastee Treat. We used to have one in my hometown and would go there all the time. Makes me nostaligic.
Michele says
It’s funny what takes us back to childhood memories…. this was certainly a winner in my book too!
Jennifer Pilgrim says
That drink sounds delicious, and perfect for summer. Great wedding picture, as well!
Michele says
awww.. thanks… I think my niece looks so happy in that pic! ~m
Vicky says
This is not only great for weddings but any kind of gathering. With summer coming up, I think I have found my go to cocktail.
Michele says
I agree! It is so refreshing@!@ ~m
Rose Sahetapy says
I love fresh make ice tea, but Ice Tea Vodka..;hmm..that’s intruiging! Your photos captured all the fun and happiness from the wedding party, especially the wedding shot.
Michele says
I must admit, it was the most fun Id had at a wedding in a long time…. the cocktail helped of course, but such love for the couple made for a fun weekend!!
Jeanine says
Yum sounds like such a refreshing drink I’ve never had before. Would love to give it a try though. Although I don’t drink, it would be nice to sip!
Koninika says
Such an absolutely refreshing drink! Looks like it can be customized for variety of different occasions and celebrations! Loved the pictures you provided with it!
Roxanne says
Oh my gosh I didn’t know sweet tea vodka existed! This looks like a perfect summer cocktail to enjoy at BBQ’s! Thanks for sharing!
Michele says
It would go great with some spicy ribs too!! ~ good idea!! ~m
Megan McCoig says
I’ve never tried sweet tea vodka – must try it. Looks like you had a amazing time!
jill conyers says
Sweet Tea Vodka? I had no idea this was a thing. Maybe it’s because I don’t drink? Is it really sweet?
Michele says
Not real sweet…. very subtle. Im not a big sweet person either so I could only drink it with something tart like lemonade! ~m
Sam | Ahead of Thyme says
I don’t drink but I love your photos! Especially the big group wedding photo!
Michele says
😉
Valentina says
What a refreshing and delicious sounding cocktail. And I love that awesome wedding shot — such a cool picture. 🙂
Tina Marie says
I love St. Pete Florida! I’m a Florida Girl and love everything about the beach!! I’ve been living in Maine now for 19 years and I so the enjoy reading about home! Love this recipe and can’t wait to make here for the “Mainers”. 🙂
Michele says
I had never been there and can’t wait to go back… there are still so many things there I didn’t get to do~~ ~m
Boastful Food says
Whoa! What? Sweet tea Vodka! Sounds like my kind of drink. Thanks for sharing such a great recipe!
jacqueline | i sugar coat it! says
Sounds refreshing – the wedding and the drink!
Michele says
It really is Jacqueline! Happy Friday!
Fatima says
The perfect drink for a parents’ night in! I can’t wait to try this. Thank you for sharing.
Michele says
lol…. isn’t that the truth, we sure need those days occasionally don’t we?! ~m
Kait says
We had this at our wedding and called it a John Daly (a notorious pro golfer who liked a good drink!) they are super refreshing!!
Michele says
John Daly was one of my Dad’s favorite golfers…. because he was so crazy! Love it!!